Just had a random, hypothetical conversation with my friend, a show we were watching sparked the conversation and we had differing views so I’m curious what everyone thinks. She said that if she found out her husband was ABOUT to cheat on her, she would call/text him like a crazy person begging him not to go through with it and reminding him of the consequences (losing his family, divorce kids etc etc) I was shocked. I’m like, if you’ve ALREADY made the decision to cheat on your spouse, like driving to the hotel to meet your mistress, I’m not calling begging you to stop. You’ve already made the decision to cheat, I shouldn’t have to beg you not to? You might as well do it at that point. And what if it happens again but you don’t find out in time to “stop it”. Am I crazy?