We’ve been together for 5 years and we recently had a baby (she’s ten weeks) we haven’t had the greatest sex life for a pretty long time (maybe 2 years). We used to have sex every day and then about 2 years ago it started being every couple of days. And when I got pregnant we were having sex once every 2 weeks. I’ve always had a big sex drive. He’s the problem. During pregnancy we barely had sex and his excuse was that he was afraid he’d hurt the baby. After the baby was born and I got cleared we had sex once. Now his excuse is that he feels ugly and doesn’t like the way he looks. To me it sounds like bullshit and I feel like we are a 90 year old couple with no intimacy. Is he cheating?