So I’m sharing this because I can’t stop crying & I am feeling overwhelmed with emotions. I’ll start off by giving you a back story to how my now ex and I met and how it ended last night. My “bf” name is John & we have known each other for almost a year now. When we first began to date everything was going great. We constantly spoke on the phone, texted all day, have dates, and would consistently just want to be in each other’s company. When I met John he was still living with he’s parents because he was in the process of buying his first home. I supported him through out the entire journey and always cheered him on. He has a fantastic job but I fell in love with he’s heart. He was the most genuine guy I’ve met. He would always open the car door for me, respected me in all areas, and supported me with my dreams. Fast forward a couple of months after he signed he’s contract with the house, it was move in date. He kept telling me to be patient with him since he will be moving he’s stuff in the house. I was super patient & of course missing him. As time goes by the communication beings to lack..... I started to feel a change in John and I tried brushing it off. I know he was feeling overwhelmed with the house and being the best dad he can be (he has a kid of his own, he is 8) I would remind John he is doing more than fine and that I will always be here for him when ever he needed me. Time continues to pass and it starts to get worse. Not only does the communication lack in starting to see him every 2 weeks... until I finally brought the conversation up to him and all he could respond with is that he’s focus right now is on the house and he can’t give me the time I need. When I was the one helping him get his house together, picking out decorations, etc. Idk was I the problem? Did I do something wrong? I’m overwhelmed and I’m not sure if I should just drop it or just ask him what I did.... help🥺