Sick and miserable rant

Abigail • Stay at home wife/ crazy cat lady and mommy to angel baby. Due in March with our rainbow girl!

I just need to rant. My baby shower is tomorrow and I have come down with acute bronchitis which is horrible since I also have asthma. Got a steroid shot and allergy meds to help but I'm still absolutely miserable Dr said let it runs it's course. I can't cancel since I wasnt the one who planned the baby shower and as we have people coming from out of state but seriously it's the worse timing possible. Constantly coughing to the point I can't breath or I throw up. I really don't know what to do as cough drops and cough meds don't work either. I can barely keep down water and chicken noodle soup and yet people are wanting me to chow down on pizza tomorrow. I'm so glad my husband is being so supportive he literally works 12 hours a day manual labor and then comes home and cleans and takes care of me without complaining. Yet I have two people saying my house is a mess and that they are gonna come clean it up cause it's not spotless since I'm sick yet where are they? My own mother even mention that cps is gonna take my kid away and give her custody of my baby girl since my house is "nasty". All I see is my exhausted husband trying to clean as best as he can while all these people just complain and not help. This is my first pregnancy to make it this far my daughter is my rainbow baby and it took so much heartache and struggle to get her this far and all I've heard the entire time is how I want to raise my kid is wrong and people giving me outdated advice or getting butthurt over the fact I won't let them have my newborn over at their house to stay the night or let them have my baby to themselves and give me a day off. Just so much crap is going on all at once I can't enjoy my pregnancy at all.