Four months ago I gave birth to a 9lb baby girl via c-section she's doing well. During the entirety of the pregnancy I was super horny my husband was into having lots of sex until the 7th month. My husband came up with every excuse I started begging for it I was so horny but he didn't put out so we had an argument I told him to take advantage while he had the chance he didn't I warned him I may not feel the same after the c-section he said that's fine.

Our first time having sex was a week ago as I predicted after having our daughter I had NO interest in sex whatsoever plus I got my tubes tied and burnt... the pain 😳 I didn't even want to see a penis but the urge came back just last week and we had some good sex. He saw that as the green light to have sex every night ever since and I've been blocking him. We sleep naked I've been feeling stressed lately about family issues so I ran a bath with water as hot as I could stand it which is really high. I lit candles, turned on Jhene Aiko's station added lemons, baking soda, dr teals citrus epson salt and coconut oil. Sat back and relaxed for about an hour I came out of the bathroom feeling super relieved. A tremendous weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I dry off a little, put my robe on, turned on the ceiling fan and open my robe, stretch out directly under it on my bed to air dry my lady parts. Sade's smooth operator is playing while I continue to enjoy this feeling with my eyes closed and here comes my husband naked trying to initiate foreplay 😒 told him to put his draws back on I'm feeling good but I don't want sex. He gets mad talkin about how I haven't been giving it up. I said my my my how the tables have turned I don't feel like it and that's that. Now he's sleeping on the couch and I've once again spread out across the bed. My girlfriend told me I'm wrong for not putting out but I'm tired of putting out just cause my man wants it then when I want it pregnant or not he can say no and I have to accept it. No way! Come for me all you want but whatever I'm 4 months PP and for the first time I felt good I didn't need the moment to be ruined because my hubby wanted to bust a nut. Sorry not sorry! 😘