Do I have a right to be angry?

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So I’m 38+3 weeks. And my sister brought over a nasty ass cold yesterday getting my husband terribly sick. Fever and everything today. Do I have every right to be angry at her for even bothering to come over knowing I’ll be in labor any day now??? Plus I have an 11 month old as well. He’s just getting over something we’ve been trying to get out of the house for a week. I’m just livid because you’d think it would be common sense and a respect thing.

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I’d be pissed. My sister did this to me. I told her I would babysit my nephew, which I had zero issues with. She brings him over then says “oh shoot, let me grab his medicine from the car.” Uh...excuse me what medicine?? “Oh he has a cold!” I was seriously so pissed at her. I was about to give birth any day. I’m like “hello!!!! I’m pregnant, you need to tell me this shit! I wouldn’t have agreed to watch him.” She told me to chill it was “just a cold”. I went off on her. I let her know that if I went into labor and had a cold and then gave it to my newborn I was going to to be so mad at her. That’s not okay and I would let them know it wasn’t.

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I would be soooooo mad. So mad i'd ignore her for at least a few days. I hope she apologized. So messed up.

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If he has a fever I whos have him checked for the flu. Better safe than sorry.

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I have kicked my mother in law out my house because of this 
I don’t play that “”it’s just a cough, runny nose”” 
With each of my kids I have never allowed people around mainly because 2/3 are winter babies. 
My mother in law showed up when my son was a day old was coughing and brought 3 of her friends with her 1 I never met. 
Best believe I made all of them get out. It started a big thing but my childs health comes first 
A small cough or runny nose can affect them in a big way and it’s so disrespectful and disgusting for people not to respect the health of a small infant

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Don't start drama with her. Just move on from it.
It's a cold as long not the flu or RSV I would not be angry.

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Do you know for sure it was your sister that got him sick and not anything else? Your son, work, grocery store, life? 
I’d say it’s not worth a fight as you can’t pinpoint where his illness came from. It could be anywhere or anything.

Do I have a right to be angry?

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