Does my man have a right to be mad at me for not wanting to wear a bra ?

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I want to give up bras but my husband doesn’t want me to cause he thinks I’ll get too much attention. He says you can see my nipples like thru all my shirts (which is true) but who cares. Does he have a right to be mad ? My boobs are b/c cups if that even matters.

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He has the right to his feelings
But that doesn't mean he has the right to force you to wear a bra

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Generally speaking, I would say that it is ur body and ur free to do whatever you want to do but at the same time ur husband is also allowed to have his own opinion and feelings and if you did force the issue and go ahead with it anyway, despite ur husbands feelings about it, how are you going to feel when and if ur husband is hellbent on doing something that you are against? Your body, your choice whatever but at the same time that is your husband and I would respect his opinion. Either that or try and come up with some sort of compromise, instead of going completely against him.

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Wtf of course he has a right to his feelings

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He can feel that way, but it’s your body.
Bras are uncomfortable, not good for your circulation and honestly they sexualize boobs way more than the bra less look.
I feel thankful my partner does not care at all, he just wants me to be comfy. I can’t wear bras, I find them so uncomfortable they give me anxiety. 
150 years ago it was standard that women wore petticoats and corsets and didn’t show ankles—the idea that women have to wear certain under layers to make others “comfortable” is silly.
#brafreelifeee

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He can be mad but his madness is born out of a belief that he deserves to have a say over what you choose to put on your body. And that’s not okay.

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My man would be extactic if I said this 🤣

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I think it’s kind of strange that this would bother him. I have E cup breasts and often don’t wear a bra (outside of work) my partner would never tell me what to/ what not to wear - my body my choice.

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Wheres the choice 
Yes he has a right to his feelings but its your body

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He has a right to his feelings. He can't force you to wear a bra, but you can't force him to like it or be happy with your decision.

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I don’t think either of you are wrong. But it depends on your relationship. For me, I always have told my husband I WANT him to always be open with me and tell me if anything makes him uncomfortable. So for me, this wouldn’t make me upset at all. If I were you I would try to find a way that works for the both of you to prevent resentment and arguments in yalls marriage. But the choice is ultimately yours !

Does my man have a right to be mad at me for not wanting to wear a bra ?

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