Is he seeing someone else and lying?

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Ok so my bf always claims he working so much, he's sick all the time and can't come spend time with me🙄🙄🙄during the start of our relationship he got mad that I posted a pic of us. Lately I've been having a horrible anxious feeling. He always turns any conversation around to blame me. Very controlling and narcissistic. Well last night I case searched him and he has an assault charge with a female during a date he told me he'd be gone from Wed-Sun to visit his grandparents. Then one night 2 hours before our date his mom was sick and he canceled then hit me at 1am asking to come by. I'm feeling like the side chick. We have a date this week I'm not mentioning the case I found out about until we are face to face...ladies do you feel he's cheating on me?

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You name all these horrible things and you're still going to go on a date with him? Raise your standards.

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There are a lot of red flags here, even if you're the only one. But this sounds like the kind of story that leads to you discovering he has a wife a three kids in another town :( leave him and find someone who treats you like you're the most important thing in their world, they're out there and you deserve that xx

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I would block him. He’s a narcissist and controlling?  You want to waste your time on a guy like that?  He’s not worth losing yourself whether you are his side chick, only chick or he’s cheating on you.

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Thank you ladies! I agree I'm not stupid and definitely need to raise my standards.

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Girl get rid he sounds like a constant nightmare and he doesn’t seem to want a relationship with you. Raise your standards.

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I’m not sure I can say he’s cheating, but you should be with someone that wants to spend time with you, not constantly avoiding it, and the time doesn’t even seem like it would be pleasant when y’all are together. IMO, if he’s cheating or not is irrelevant at this point and this just isn’t someone you should stay with regardless. My bf was constantly making the trip to come see me, when we first started dating and he still does. Unfortunately I don’t have a car and at first I thought it would, but it hasn’t helped put a damper in our relationship at all. We’re about half hour apart, so not too far but not incredibly close either. Sometimes he’ll make the trip 2-3 times a day. We’ve seen each other more often times than not, since being together. Just for the fact he doesn’t seem interested in wanting to even spend time with you and has narcissistic tendencies, on top of the domestic assault charge. This guy is a straight up asshole and get out now before you become his second domestic assault charge. I wouldn’t even bring it up, bc you don’t know how he’s going to respond and if he’s going to get violent or belligerent towards you. Sometimes knowing the truth isn’t always worth it, especially considering the risks involved and what’s knowing the truth going to do? I should hope you don’t choose to stay with him, even though he seems to treat you more like a slave than a girlfriend. You deserve someone that can’t seem to get enough of you, not this asshole.

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Yeah he might be cheating 
Either way though you deserve better he ain’t treating you right

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I’m sorry but he’s hiding something. End it now, just be prepared to stick to your decision cause once he see’s you’re serious he’ll freak out.  I think you already know the answer if he’s seeing someone else. And his reasons are lame, you deserve better . Be strong and end that relationship ASAP

Is he seeing someone else and lying?

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