He told me I think too much
So in the beginning like most relationships it’s the honeymoon phase we always think it will never end, then it always does but with me I’m not that way, I’m still the same as the first day we met way in the beginning. Well last night my bf was saying how we aren’t lovey dovey like in the beginning bc I’m always around and he never has his own time, he said me being at work doesn’t count as him being alone when he’s off. I told him he can go places without me it’s not an issue, he was saying how we used to see each other a few times out the week and we were lovey dovey. He told me that once you have the girl you don’t have to do that anymore also. Which just made me sit there in a daze. All before he was crazy about me had me come over weeks at a time ended up getting me pregnant and then immediately the spark left and now he tells me this 7 months down the line. I froze in sadness and after about 2 minutes I said so if I get my own place that would make things better for you? He then said you’re thinking to much into it getting into your feelings, misinterpreting what I said twisting it. & I questioned that’s what you were saying I’m just asking what action to take to make things better. He said the same thing and I just got quiet and shut down as I tried to process the pain he just unloaded on me. It’s now 5 am where I am, and this is what’s on my mind. I shut down and pretty much haven’t said much since. Am I misinterpreting things? Reading to much into it? I love him but times like this make me prepare for the day that we just end it makes me expect it to come wheather it’s me walking away or him. I’m having a son and I don’t want him to treat a woman this way at all. Period. What would you do in this situation?
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