rude comments

Does anyone else get any rude comments about how you will decide to take care of baby? I’ve been very vocal about the “no kissing” rule being one of my #1 boundaries when baby boy arrives, just so people know that that won’t be tolerated. i’ve gotten SO MANY rude comments from my in laws such as “awh the poor baby won’t be shown any love” and “grandparents get a pass”, etc. This is my first baby, i’m allowed to feel protective and not want my son to get sick the first few months that he’s born. I’m sure once he’s actually here i’ll ease up a bit but i’ve seen way to many scary RSV stories going around lately so of course i’m being precautious. It’s just so ignorant to me that i’m getting these comments when it’s something i’m clearly worried about