Trouble with my Boyfriend: NEED ADVICE!!

Hi i really am desperate for advice right now, and i could really use a big sister.

So I’m 16, and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now. This is a first relationship for both of us. We both are double sport athletes, AP students, and both of us participate in a multitude of extracurriculars. To say the least, we are extremely busy and honestly don’t get to be together all that much.

That being said, we haven’t made out. Not once. We’ve kissed shortly and it’s never been a big deal to me that we haven’t done more. I’m not super comfortable with physical intimacy, for reasons that I haven’t talked with him about yet. (My first kiss was not consensual and a really awful memory and ever since then I get really nervous to kiss anyone. That’s the short version)

Recently however, some of our mutual friends have been poking fun at us and me about why we haven’t “done anything” and when we’re going to make the move. Not only is this super uncomfortable, but now I feel like i’m not satisfying him and I feel so embarrassed that he didn’t talk to me and now all our friends know. For example, one of my friends recently got into a relationship with my boyfriends best friend, and she said “We’ve already done more than you guys have, you know he wants to make out with you, so just do it.”

I know I’m probably overreacting, and someone please tell me if i need to chill, but I really need advice. I know its just kissing. But the moment haven’t ever been right and like I said, we don’t see each other very often, so sometimes it feels like we’ve been dating for only a short time.

I feel frustrated and embarrassed and worst of all I feel like I just need to make out with him to make him and everyone else happy.

What should I do??