Ex boyfriend

Hey ladies, I need help..

Okay so my ex boyfriend who was also my first boyfriend just got a new girlfriend. We’ve been apart for roughly 3 months and we didn’t date that long. Anyway, I have been really upset lately that he moved on which I shouldn’t be because I broke up with him.

This past weekend I saw him for the first time since we broke up and it broke my heart. He could barley look at me, didn’t say a word and couldn’t even stand to be in the same room as me. I went over to his house because his family is very close to my family and his mom invited me over since I was in town. I’m also very good friends with his older brother and I spent the weekend with him and our group of friends before he went back to college.

Last night I did something which a few of my friends would highly call a mistake. I messaged him and told him that

“I know you got a new gf and I’m so happy for you:) if you ever need anything I’m always here”

I also apologized that this past weekend was so awkward and obviously something a little different then what I put in quotes. He wasn’t too pleased to be talking to me and wasn’t exactly kind, but not surprised.

Anyway, I know that breaking up with him was the right thing to do. We don’t live close to each other so we’d never see each other in the winter. I dated him all summer and it was easy because I had a cabin and family where he lived so I saw him A LOT. He wasn’t a great boyfriend he was poor at the whole communication thing and it’s like he didn’t know how to be a boyfriend if y’all know what I mean. But by all means he was a wonderful person. I think it’s just been so hard with the fact he moved on and I didn’t. And seeing him with someone else has just been super hard.

Another thing, about a month after be broke up we were snapping and he said

“I never cared about you and I still don’t” and that hurt very bad. I feel like another reason I’m so jealous is that he claims he never cared about me but loves her. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend I just don’t get how you can forget that easily.

(Also I’m 16)