I can’t be the only one to think you can’t compare one loss to another.

An ectopic pregnancy, a molar pregnancy, a chemical pregnancy, a missed miscarriage. Each of those typically earlier losses but all so different.

Then you get to later losses. Where a baby is born still, or parents hold a baby as they pass. Laboring for a baby you know won’t come home.

All losses are so very different. Please be considerate of those around you, you never know what demons they’re battling.