Okay everyone so a little back story I am just getting out of a long not bad but less then happy marriage and it’s been 5 months now. Wow that was long now I am a mom of 4 he signed full custody and we are waiting for papers to finalize I have child support all is well.😁 I am not at all upset about things ending as we are still friends and get along fine he moved out and now it’s just me and the kids so I thought...

So hold the phone a minute YES I know it breaks all the codes and morals!!!

...but a month out I started see someone. Someone I trusted and knew pretty well someone we both hung out with and who happened to be his best friend... take a breath it’s okay I asked for his blessing before we started all this... now we all hangout on the weekends they work together so all friends still.

now that is kinda what’s going on with me so new year new relationship I want a new version of me to make a big difference I want to get out of all my ruts get a new job or a job period and start over, but... I need ideas I want to do a lot of new extreme changes but I am not sure what I need help with this I just cut my hair and I mean like I had long hair and now I have like a buzz so do y’all have any ideas.