My other half is 44yo and I'm 30 so a fairly big gap. Sometimes we go at it like bunnies and then there is a drug spell which is like once or twice a month kinda thing. Although since I've been with him we've never experimented(toys etc) and weve never gone more than once. I'm not a super confident person so it took ages for me to mumble it out and he said in a jokey way ' that's because I'm not young and i give it my all in one go' lol I'll give him that considering it's not an "in and out" sex situation. It's long and intense but in a strange way I kinda want to experiment and see what it's like more than once. Especially now we are TTC I want to experiment more than ever now. But I dont know how to tell him or ask or explain...help