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You sound bitter though
I'm your worst nightmare....
I am the woman every woman dreads. The woman all women point the finger at. Scream at. Blame for ruining their life.
I am the homewrecker.
And I am so so so sorry.
That you think it's entirely my fault.
Because it actually wasn't my fault. And you just needed someone to blame so that you could be the victim and I could be the woman everyone else hates.
The first thing you did was yell at me. The other woman. For stealing your husband. You didn't get mad at him. You didn't blame him. You didn't know that he lied to the both of us.
I didn't know about you. You didn't know about me. And when you found out it was my fault. I ruined your life. I'm the reason for all of your problems.
When in reality? It's HIS fault.
HE is to blame.
HE wrecked YOUR home.
But you want him back. You're fighting for your man. Protecting your marriage from the horrible breed of women known as homewreckers.
He was never married to me. But I sure as hell wouldn't want him back.
Look at you. Working to save your marriage from the woman who apparently stole your husband. Telling social media that karma will get you. Middle finger to the homewrecker. I will fight to protect my man. Re posting pictures of your wedding day telling everyone that he's your whole world and don't know what you would do without him and how no woman can get in the way.
Really? Because a woman did get in the way. Clearly. Unintentionally in the way of the marriage I never knew existed. But you guys are just so strong. You're not going to let him get away. You don't know what you'd do without him? PLEASE. He wasn't committed to you for an entire year. And your relationship is strong? He's not getting away? Karma will get me??
I didn't wreck a home that was clearly already broken.
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Ja
I am very bitter about a man who cheats on their significant other making it seem as if he single. Then on top of that made a whole baby but don’t wanna be there for it. IF THATS BITTER TO YOU THEN YES IM VERY MUCH SO BITTER!🤷🏽♀️
Da
She sounds very bitter and so does jasmine
Ja
Exactly!!!! The people who are saying she is “bitter” the type to take their cheating husband back. She clearly stated the wife is on social media talking shit about her but y’all talking bout she bashing the wife. 😂😂😂 imma y’all shit back to whenever talks shit to me. ESP since I e been in this situation they just weren’t married and a baby was created from the bs. I too was callled a home wrecker and the whole time I didn’t even know about your ass!!!! Now my child does not have a father
I don’t know about other women but I believe the majority of women sleeping with married men, know that man is married. They just don’t care. They’re having fun with these men taking them out; buying things for them; etc. some even look at it like it’s a competition between them and the wife. Let’s be real. If a man is only calling you or texting you between the hours of 9am and 5pm (when he’s at work), why do you think that’s happening? If your calls go through to him and he answers but after 5pm, you’re blocked, why do you think that is? Or if you call him, get no answer but some time later he calls you back, why do you think that is? If he can never spend all night with you, why is that? If he never invites you to his place, why? If he can’t take certain calls in front of you, who do you think he’s really talking to? There are so many signs that a man is married that you really have to be blind as a bat to not see them. So you can just go somewhere else with that “I didn’t know he was married” BS. You knew and didn’t care and you’re bitter because he didn’t leave his wife for you. They have a hope of working on their marriage since he knows you were a HUGE MISTAKE and you’re mad.
Ra
Why should she apologetic? If she didnt know what was going on then what does she have to apologize for? She got played just as much as the wife did . The husband should be the only one apologizing .
Li
Your situation is completely different than this OP. This OP is in no way apologetic about sleeping with a married man and she’s bashing the hell outta the wife. Women who don’t know the guy is married and wouldn’t knowingly sleep with a married man aren’t going to behaving like this. She’s mad at the woman for deciding to work on her marriage. To me that comes across like she herself still wants him otherwise why is she so mad?
Al
I honestly never knew he was married. I was his “everything” his parents, friends, and family looked me in the eye and lied to me. I knew he had kids. He FaceTimed then all the time. With me there. Even showed me to his kids. Turns out he sees his wife once a month. She lives in a whole other state. When I found out about her I messaged her and apologized. I knew I was in the wrong just as much as him. She said I wasn’t the first and not the last either. She thanked me and we became friends and set him up. I still keep up with her considering his kids. It’s not always the mistresses fault.
The wife always blames the other woman. But in my opinion.. the other woman normally didn’t know the truth either. If he’s lying to you, he’s probably lying to her as well.
Ra
Some dudes live double lives . Its definitely possible that hes just THAT good at hiding shit
ta
If the other girl don’t know the guys in a relationship that totally not the girls fault. But when you have even a clue that he might be in a relationship maybe you should run?
Li
I definitely agree with that. He may be a good liar but over time his actions are going to give him away.
I always put the blame 100% on the married man. I don’t care if a woman pulls down her pants and begs, he knows he’s married and how he’s supposed to act. With that being said I can also understand why a married woman might try to make it work. For you to write this.. you obviously know now that he’s married. And even for you it should be expected that they may try to make it work. My biggest concern is you basically bragging about being a home-wrecker and that he man is unfaithful. Just like you were lied to and learned that these things are possible she also learned the same. Your job as a side piece would be to move on bc he’s not leaving her. And her job is to see if her marriage is salvageable and learn he lesson if it is not. It’s not your job to judge her. She got mad and yelled at you? She may have thought you knew. And she’s probably distraught, remember she MARRIED this man. I’m sure she’s disgusted with him too but you don’t see that part.
Mi
100% this.
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I can see why others may not agree with that...but I absolutely agree!
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*her , *her
The ladies calling you bitter and not understanding the point of this post are the ones that would do exactly what that cheating ass dog’s wife did/is doing. If my husband cheats and the other woman didn’t know about me, we’d be getting together for lunch and then torching all of his stuff. 🤷🏻♀️
Lu
Same!
R
I’d torch his stuff and divorce his ass but no way in hell would I be teaming up with that woman.
Sa
Agreed! BUT, only if she didn't know and can show proof that she didn't know
My sister is a homewrecker and did know. She's the reason him and his wife are getting a divorce. Yet she had the audacity to get upset when he said he needed space to focus on his son during the divorce. I gave her shit when she was venting to me. Sometimes the other woman does know. But I also acknowledge some women don't know at all. I see a lot of people on here calling OP bitter and accusing her of knowing you don't know the whole story. Maybe the wife is attacking her personally on social media and she just needed to vent? That would make me bitter about the wife too 🤷🏻♀️
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They’re both at fault but I have to say I feel the guy always looks worse because he risked his marriage and kids for another woman. As the woman is single with no kids she had nothing to lose.
Am
Sure the man was at fault. But if the other women knew and still pursued it's just as much their fault too. Not justifying the man or anything I just think they share a blame if the other woman knowingly goes into it
Ti
It didn’t have to be your sister who he had the affair with, but she did willingly choose it. It shows more about both of their characters than “who is to blame”.
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