What to do? Please Help!

Me and my husband have been married for a year and have been living together for a little longer than that, i am comfortable have a financial discussion with him letting him know what i make etc. but i dont think he ferls the same i dont even know when he gets paid and everytime i try having a serious discussion with him it doesnt get anywhere.. also i suggested therapy and he said “if we have to do that then whats the point” like we are too good for therapy what should i do??