Dislike being a mom?

Anyone else?

I feel like life over the last 10 years has just happened to me. Instead of me actually having a plan. I was a mom and wife before I could even really think about my life (child at 16, married at 18.) fast forward to 25, and it makes me sad because being a mom and wife wasn’t the ONLY option. I almost feel trapped. The last 8 years I gave all of me to my husband and kids. I stayed home while he was able to go to school and get a good job. I feel like it wasn’t really worth giving up on myself honestly.

Please don’t bash me.. I am a good mom to my kids of course. I just feel like there’s more to life than being a mom/wife. But I have no idea how to have both? I can’t do much with no help with the kids, I just feel stuck.🥺 I tried talking to my husband about it and his response was “well yeah, I was in the army then met you, and I’ve worked ever since.” I’m sure he has his own struggles but I don’t think he can really relate. I feel like I have nothing for myself. Like who even am I aside from a mom and wife...🙃