Am I wrong?

So my boyfriend is very active. He hangs out with friends a lot, goes snowboarding a lot, just overall has a super active and a good social life. I’ve told him that I’m worried because I have a child and my life revolves around work, and my son. So I don’t go out much and things I do that are active involve him.

He seems to be set on that he was only super active and social because he’s been single for a year before we got together. Even though he hasn’t met my son (isn’t even going to happen for like 6 months from now) he still goes out a lot and hangs with friends a lot and has been hitting up the mountain a lot lately. So we hangout some but rarely because he lives an hour away but we can’t as much as I would like because again, my son. He has said that he knows what he’s getting into and that he doesn’t think our lives are much different

I’m worried still somehow. Is this an unrealistic relationship? Or is it too soon to tell? Or am I dramatic af

We don’t hangout much like I said, maybe a couple nights in a row I will stay over. But then it’s back home back to work, so we don’t really text because he’s always busy doing something either with friends or him being at work which is even tougher because he works 12 hour night shifts so we are on opposite sleep schedules /: