Okay so I’m pregnant with #2!

Long story short, right before my child’s birthday party me and my mother in law got into a fight.

She kept saying really hurtful things bout my family. I kept letting the comments slide for years. And I couldn’t take it anymore. I told her that if you dislike my family so much. Well do separate parties. The fight blew up so big, she was hurt and I was hurt.

Over a year later she’s won’t let it go.

I wanted to do a gender reveal at a ultrasound place and she refusing to go, she told me she won’t go to the new baby’s baptism or any birthday parties.

(We hashed it out over a year ago, we made up..)

She confronted me about it again, and told me she’s over it. I told her if she was over it she would come to the baby events. I’m really hurt over it. It seems like she’s not excited bout this baby. We were both in the wrong and both were hurt. And see doesn’t see how I was hurt.

Now I don’t wanna do a gender reveal party, I just feel really bummed bout it. Insight? Advice?