As a 16 year old girl who has finally became excited and comfortable with my pregnancy. I decided at 28 weeks to start researching and looking into a birthing plan. As I’m talking to him ab the types of epidural and other planning things. He tells me I’m being unrealistic since, “You’re 16 You’re automatically high-risk, so it’s pointless to look into that. Additionally have a low pain tolerance, so don’t be thinking you not gonna be begging for epidural as soon as the contractions start.” Am I being unrealistic or is he being mean? It really hurt my feelings since I usually don’t do these types of things so he won’t hurt my feelings with brutal honesty, but I felt like I was on a good tr