So let me just preface this by saying I’ve been happily married for almost 3 years and I love my husband very much.

But omg. When I was in college I used to hook up with this guy and we both really loved each other just kind of at different times. It never worked out for us but I really did love him and he really did love me.

Or so I thought...

I was just scrolling through Facebook and I saw that one of my friends was friends with him (I was creeping on her page and he popped up on her friends list just like as one of the top people) so I clicked on his page just feeling nostalgic and someone had posted all this stuff about how he’s been cheating on his wife OF 10 YEARS... Which means that he was definitely cheating on her with me at some point.

I am just shocked. I had absolutely no idea and NEVER would have even so much as flirted with him if I knew he was married. I feel disgusted. I had such fond memories of him. In a way he was kind of my first love and I had absolutely no idea he was married.