Did I do the wrong thing?

I can’t change what I’ve done but my boyfriend is pretty upset with me.

So a little back story.. I separated from my ex-husband of 7 years

about two years ago. I raise my little sister, so for our best interest I moved 1200 miles back to live with family. We have been living with my grandmother for the last year and a half now. I have racked up a couple credit cards of debt since moving back and leaving everything. But buying A house of my own has been my biggest dream since moving here. But when I first moved here I did not have a job or any money so it just wasn’t an option.

My boyfriend and I have been talking about living together but he does not have a job or a place of his own. And when I would bring up how much I want a house his response would be “you find a house and then I’ll move in and get a job” I finally realized that I can’t keep waiting for him to grow up. Soooo..

But I’ve been house hunting continuously. The very first house I ever looked at is for sale. The lady agreed to sell it to me for an amazing price after a little back and forth. I will have the deed in my name with in the next 6 months.

I haven’t been able to contain my excitement, he however is very hurt that I did this. He will not even go look at the house with me. He wanted me to move 45 minutes away from my family, to be closer to his family (the location would be inbetween both families). But I do not want to uproot my sister again from her school and friends. Where as the house I’m

Buying is two doors down from my grandma, and 15 minutes from my job.

I see this as an investment opportunity, not a forever home. But I feel bad that he’s hurt that I didn’t include him. I dont know how I feel when it comes to him, because I feel as if he didn’t have an input when he wasn’t getting serious about it, he doesn’t want to help me renovate, and can’t contribute money unless it’s coming from his families pockets.

The house isn’t perfect but I can already see myself making it a home, I just wish he was as excited as i am or even somewhat supportive. Regardless if I made is mistake or not, I close on the house February 1st....