Someone tell me I’m crazy, I know 🙄😂

I’ve been too anxious to test, I didn’t do any ovulation testing and did a bad job marking down when we had sex this cycle. But I’ve been late in the past and don’t want to test and get my hopes up. I don’t know what’s a reasonable time to just suck it up and test hahah. But its been 2 years and I have self diagnosed pregnancy test ptsd for those of you that can relate. I’m in day 35 and this is the latest ever gone without a period, let alone a single spec of spotting. My husband had another semen analysis yesterday, results pending. I’ve been cramping mildly on and off over a week and have sore boobs, typical pms