Should I talk to my boyfriend about it?

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Does he not think I’m attractive anymore?

I see him 3 days a week and spend the night 2. We have sex like once every 2 weeks. We’ve been dating 6 months and in the beginning we would have sex every time we saw each other and sometimes even multiple times a day 😅

Now he just seems completely turned off from having sex. He kisses my forehead and hugs me and that’s it. He’s very sweet and likes to cuddle but he never tries to touch me like that. Like AT ALL. And if I try to massage him and work my way down to his boxers he doesn’t get into it and just says no or some excuse. So I respect his boundaries and stop.

But now he’s turning me off! I don’t feel attracted to people who don’t think I’m attractive 😂 then when he tries to hug or kiss me I don’t want to and he gets upset. But I don’t feel confident or sexy anymore, so I’m not in a good mood about it. All of my past partners would loving touching me or initiating being intimate. We’re 20btw.

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