Wanting to change birth control please help

Everytime I start taking the pills to start my period well I get alot of problems like really painful cramps. Sore breasts, my moods go insane and I cant control them, and my vagina goes so red and irritated from the pads or tampons to the point where I cant walk and it hurts so bad. To fix it I usually free bleed over a towel which helps alot and put a cream on from the gyno. but then when I start the pills again to stop the period even when I take them it keeps going for around 2 weeks I've seen doctors about it but they dont know what to do. So if anyone knows about a form of birth control that helps stop periods or let me have them alot less doesnt have to be a pill I would be soo thankful ❤