GAMERS GFS/WIVES ONLY!

Okay ladies! ☺️

So I’m gonna explain myself as best as I can. My fiancé gets winters off due to his career choice. He brings in unemployment and on top of my pay checks, we definitely never go without. In the summer I will agree, he busts his ass. He works 9-12 hour days almost every day of the week. His whole life he’s been a gamer, but I’ve never seen it get so bad... I don’t have to be to work by 1:30pm every day, so I get to sleep in you can imagine. So I wake up around 9-10 am and he’s already been on his games for Atleast an hour.. then i just sit on the couch or clean until I go to work and he stays on. Then while I’m at work, he barely texts back bc he’s busy playing games. Then I come home from work at 7:30 pm and have to cook dinner. Hell try and help but he’s still on his game and he can’t leave the screen for more than like 2 mins. Then I’ll say dinner is done and he’ll ask where his plate is. Sometimes I’ll tell him he has to get it but most the time I bring it to him. He can’t even grab the plate he’s so engrossed in the game and he tells me to set it down and “thanks babe” then it’ll be around 10:30-11:30pm and I’m ready to go to bed and he’ll just say “go to bed” “I’ll be in there soon” so then I’ll go to bed, and hear him come in and check the clock and it’s 1:30 am or maybe 2. That’s been every night this week. And then repeat.. so today I broke down and told him I feel like we never spend quality time together. But he thinks that us hanging while he’s playing video games is quality time. He thinks if I need to talk, we can do it while he’s playing video games and he can still be fully paying attention. Like to me, if we spent the night with me watching him play, I’d feel we didn’t spend good time together. He thinks we’re spending great time together. How do we meet In the middle? What do you ladies do?

HEEEELLLLLPPPPPP