Oh How We Love Men 😒

Alexis • 👼🏽👼🏽 🤰🏽🌈🤞🏽

Few days ago, my boyfriend and I were on FaceTime while he was at work. I stated that I wanted pickles with my dinner.. he turned it into a sexual thing and I went along with it. He asked “what size” pickle I wanted. I said “idk medium sized 7-8 inches” he said he was uncomfortable with what I sId and he hung up. I didn’t think he was serious. So he texts me and stated how he felt uncomfortable and was offended by the word “medium” he took that as me calling him small..

When I said medium I was meaning not huge where it’s more painful than pleasing but not small either.

I apologized for it because it obviously hurt his feelings and pride although I didn’t mean it that way. I didn’t want him to feel like that. Fast forward we didn’t talk much the next day because it got a little heated from the previous night but he came around and wanted to and I apologized again for it. THE NEXT DAY he brings it up again and ultimately said he’s no longer comfortable with me sexually and doesn’t want sex from me and he can’t be with someone he’s not comfortable with sexually.. I’m like well if you feel that sex is a major part of a relationship and you feel you’d cheat if you don’t have it within the relationship then what’s the point of us at all? I really feel like it’s such a simple misunderstanding and not that big of a deal to act like this especially while I’m pregnant. But yet he’s still sending me memes and twitter links I haven’t responded because now I feel like he intentionally wanted to hurt my feelings.