Having a baby is no trend...

I know people are gunna say "Mind your own uterus!" "it's none of your business what others are trying to do! Let them live their lives!" "you can't control them. You're not their parent".

Alright I understand all of this and I will as soon as I get something off of my chest. To all the females who are still in school please do not be too anxious to start a family just yet. I just turned 18 in September and 20 weeks pregnant and God knows this is no walk in the park. There are the prenatal appointments, expensive ass ultrasounds, clothes, diapers,!EATING!

Because good God you're going to eat your ass off. That baby if going to be depending on YOU! You are his/her provider. You are his/her everything! You are their heart, their lungs, their warmth, their earth, their oxygen, their hygiene, their food, their well being all around! You are responsible for that human being! Not your parents , not your best friend, not the government, not your grandparents; YOU! I know you want someone to love, someone to be there for you, someone to have and to hold! But, putting a baby's life in danger because of what you want is not ok. I am only 18. I may not know much. I am no goddess, I am not your parent, I am no therapist, hell I ain't even a parent yet. But please take it from someone who is about to be. Babies are a blessing. I do not regret my baby, but I do wish the timing was better.

Please think before you do this. It will change your life the day the heart starts pumping.