My husband use to look at porn n now we have filters on comp n phone. the thing is he still maturbates almost daily. he goes to counseling for other reasons. i am more than willin to have sex. we are going to see a couples counselor next week. the problem is we been trying to conceive for 13 months, both been tested at a fertility clinic all is normal when we have sex he has dry spells often n cant ejacuate. he is killing us in tryin to get preg which is so selfish. i feel like since i am getting older i should leave instead of wastin more of my childbearing years. he has low libido n erectile dysfunction (he is only 35 )but still tries to have sex. i had to create a calendar for him so he knows to meet for sex twice a week or it wont happen. in the bed he just wants me to do all the work while he lays there. i have to ask him almost each encounter to get involved like get on top of me etc. he never really been super exciting sexually just ol fashion sex . anywsy please give me some real advice. other than this issue everything else is fine