Eight months ago, I met this guy at work. He noticed me before I noticed him, even then it took a while before I started conversing with him...but eventually we started. We have talked everyday since exchanging phone numbers and we visit each other frequently as well. He told me he has a baby mother who will take away his child if he doesn’t continue to pay her bills, and if he decides to leave. He’s on child support already and I told him that he should let the court handle it. He’s expressed how he was in a two parent home and wants the same for his daughter, I told him that if the relationship is toxic as you say it’s not healthy whether there’s two parents or not. I’ve met his daughter, I’ve met the baby mother. His daughter was cool with me and her father dating, the baby mother was not. I have no idea what I did to this lady but I was all kinda bitches and hoes. He of course defended me, but she did take his daughter away. He was torn and depressed... I told him to do what he has to do to be in his daughters life a father is important. I pushed him away back to her for his daughter. He never stopped calling, texting, or visiting me. Even told me he loved me. What I don’t understand is, if she is so toxic why do you keep going back? Maybe he loves her, but why won’t he let me go? It’s like when we’re together it’s perfect, but he’d rather stay with imperfection. Am I just living in a fantasy land? It’s clear that he won’t leave again, but when I do he’s always right there...being sweet, being the man I dreamed of.