He hardly opens up to me about work or how his day went. Doesnt bother asking how my day was.. how our son did (im a SAHM to a 14m)

I try to talk to him ask him how the day was and its as if im talking to the wall.. he seems uninterested. I feel like our marriage is OVER due to no communication or trust. I say trust bc ive caught a couple of lies (which there’s proof) but he denies and denies and gets defensive.

I feel for our son. The other day i tried asking him something and he started yelling at me telling me to “shut the fuck up” i kept telling him i just wanted to know how he felt bc i tried explaining to him how i felt and he didnt seem to care.. he cut me off with those words and kept repeating until i just shut down. My Little one is just so small and i dont want him to hear/live through this.😭