Would it bother you if your bff spoke to your ex behind your back?

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I get this gut feeling my bff is talking to my ex. Idk maybe it's irrational but sadly I've never been wrong when I get those feelings.

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"Behind your back" thats the problem here. Not anything else

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No, actually lol  I’m cool with a few of my exes. Dated in high school, didn’t work out. We just became friends after. If my friend came to me and was like “I’ve been talking to so and so. I really like him.” I’d tell her to go for it. I don’t own anyone lmao. I’d be happy for the two of them. I’ve dated some shitty people, and I would warn any of my friends of the bad exes 😂 But, at the end of the day, it’s not my decision to make 🤷🏻‍♀️

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It depends. I have one real ex. My first “boyfriend” I had was my freshman year of highschool and it lasted three months. However all we did was hold hands and kiss on the cheek. If my best friend spoke to him I wouldn’t care. It wasn’t a real relationship. My next relationship I had was with the father of my kids. We aren’t together anymore but I for sure would have a problem with my best friend speaking to him in a romantic/sexual way. That’s the father of my kids, there’s a lot of complicated history between the two of us, and my best friend knows everything that happened. If she were to still pursue him Id cut her off. So i guess it depends how serious things were with your ex

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I accidentally clicked not a real friend. I wouldn't be bothered, so would have clicked nah. If any of my friends want to talk to an arsehole they're welcome to. I'm friends with one of my friend's exes, we just don't talk about my friend. If it's an ex you don't have a claim over them anymore, and they can do what the want - same as your friends.

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If it works for them, good for them. What is it my problem? He is no more in my life.

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No grown ass mature woman, that has any sort of respect for herself, is going to want to have anything to do with your shady ex. Now if it was just an ex where things just didn’t work out but they were a great guy, honestly I wouldn’t care. Not my fault or his fault we weren’t fit for each other but he may be fit for my best friend.

Would it bother you if your bff spoke to your ex behind your back?

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