So, my husband and brother in law basically volunteered me to babysit my niece who is 6 months old and my nephew who is 3 while they go fishing. While normally I wouldn't mind, the last time I kept and eye on them while they were moving a washing machine in the house, my nephew not only spit on and hit my daughter in the head, he also was really mean to his sister (the 6 month old) I was VERY stern with him and made him sit down, but he kept screaming no. And kicking at me and got up anyway. (Mind you this was probably only 10 minutes) I told my brother in law, and he got his behind.

I DO NOT want to watch that boy. I'd watch the baby...but idk what to do. If I say the real reason, there will be SO much animosity and I just do NOT want to deal with the drama.

Any suggestions?