Changing day and night

Mamas I have couple questions:

1)did your babies after one month got day and night in order.

Baby boy is almost two weeks old and sleeping all day and no sleeping entire night becoming exhausting.I know he will wake up then but it will be easier if he is sleeping at least two hours.

2) over day I will breastfeed him and he will be fine but when night comes milk like stopes so I need to give him formula is that normal?

3) how to not get attached on my arms? So situation is next: he will eat burp I will rock him to sleep and put him into bassinet and after 5 minutes he will start crying so I will take him into arms and he fall asleep immediately. I don’t want that because I don’t want to co sleep (afraid)

4) how to get him to use pacifier? I tried but every time he spits and move his head all the way.

Thank you for answers