Are cervical exams supposed to be rough??

I hear and read about it being super uncomfortable but wow my OB was extremely rough and she legit jabbed me with her fingers repeatedly then apologized lol it took me by surprise. She said my cervix was high, so maybe that’s why it took her a few tries but she did seem to have shorter fingers and her knuckles kept hitting my bone, so maybe that’s why she was struggling to reach and feel? It was painful and uncomfortable and to think I have to see her again next week. 😭