I’m not a cooker, never have been. I know how to cook but I hate doing it. It’s like I’m missing out on other things I could do, and I don’t get enjoyment out of using up hours of my evening just to watch my husband stuff it down in less than 20 minutes. My husband and I bought plants, grass, soil, etc for our backyard for spring last week and he said “why don’t you cook dinner while I plant?” And honestly, I was truly hurt. I wanted to plant not cook. Is it my duty to cook for him? I start work on Monday but haven’t been working while getting through a difficult pregnancy. Kinda been feeling like that’s what my husband is expecting of me and I hate feeling like that’s my obligation as a wife. Am I a bad wife?