Age Differences 🥴

I was adopted and raised by Older Parents. It was the WORST ! ( my own experience ) What do you ladies feel about having a child with a man 40 and older ? When your kid is in Elementary you will be 50. Is it not a normal worry or think that the parent won’t live long enough to see their child graduate ? I don’t want to seem naive I just want to know does AGE matter in the TTC journey. This would probably be a question for couples with a heightened age difference. But open to all to answer.