hi u gals... SO, let’s start here me and my boyfriend have been together for some years now and 3 years for sure we’ve been having unprotected sex without him “pulling out”... never gotten pregnant, so at this point we’re like, something may be wrong.

I set an appointment for my primary care doctor, I basically told her that I think something maybe wrong, her words was “that’s a blessing, if your not ready” but that wasn’t my concern Of being ready, I wanted to make sure if everything is fine. Basically the whole time I’m telling her what’s going on with me, and talking over me. I’m just like wtf, I give up.

So I google. Found me a gynecologist, she somewhat answered my questions. I told her that I was having pelvic pain. So we did a Pap smear, she checked my uterus, she said everything is “fine” they took urine to send off. I asked her if my ovaries may have blockage, I honestly can’t remember what she said but I know it was like “nothing wrong”

Any advice? I want them to the dye test on my uterus, how can I ask them for that?

Please help. It’s kinda scary, not knowing if something maybe wrong & no one truly doesn’t wanna help and it’s their job to listen to the patient.