So my husband has been going on these weekends away with his group of friends where they get really drunk all weekend and stay at an air b&b. I'm fine with a boys weekend sort of thing, but there are always girls as well. I'm never invited which is fine, bc the purpose of these trips is really drinking and going to bars and I am pregnant. We're only 21 and he has never cheated that I know of, but still I'm not really okay with him having drunk sleepovers with girls while I'm at home pregnant I'm just not. Last time he went it was a huge fight and I was the bad guy for ruining his fun by bringing it up basically. It makes me feel guilty like I'm ruining his fun and his young years telling him he can't go do these things, but at the same time he chose to have a baby and get married young and I dont think that's acceptable of a husband. Idk what to do, do I trust him and let him have his fun even though theres just something about it that isn't acceptable it's almost like embarrassing for me or fight it out and him hate me and harbor this feeling of like me being controlling and not letting him have fun sort of thing. Idk...