he makes my blood boil sometimes. we are roommates with my boyfriends brother, and have a one year old daughter. when we found out we were pregnant with our second, we obviously told my bfs brother and were trying to figure things out. my bf and I were trying to think of things we needed to do in order to care for both children especially since they were young, and coming up with a plan for school and our careers and work schedules, etc. I kid you not, his brother practically begs us to get an abortion or to consider adoption and just kept repeating it over and over. not only that, but he said "plus I dont want to deal with two kids"... like what?? this baby isnt even yours?? and you wanted me to consider an abortion or adoption and he was going on about how he doesnt want to deal with two crying babies???? my bf and I knew we needed to move out and have us part ways soon since our daughter was getting older, but to hear someone say that shit just had me in awe. it also makes me soooo mad thinking about what he said about my mom after I gave birth to my 1 year old. my mom wanted to stay with us for 2-3 days or atleast be around alot for those 2-3 days coming home from the hospital in order to help me with the baby and myself, and we ran it through my bfs brother and he said ummm I dont feel comfortable, I've lived with asians before I dont wanna do it again (I'm asian and they are white) and i was like ????? huh??? my mom wasnt going to LIVE with us just help around for 2-3 days and that makes you uncomfortable??? ALSO their mom visits all the time when she flies in town and i never have the say to say umm no that makes me uncomfortable and I dont want her here. UGH am I overreacting or what but it literally makes me so mad.