Does he seem interested?

Am I just being paranoid? Or is he into me.. like I want to go out places with him and get to know eachother better in person rather than having sex all the time.. I want to hold hands, cuddle, talk about things.. but this is what I get so I just have started to give up and try to give that energy back... it’s so hard because I do care about this person. I know people can get busy but.. geez.. I guess it make me feel toxic because my ex always called me that but he cheated on me.. 😅 and I’m just afraid now.. 😞 am I toxic? Is it my fault that things never go right.. 🤦🏾‍♀️