Do I have to tell him ?

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I had a one night stand ( at the time I thought it was going somewhere ) with a close friends brother I’ve known him for years we hooked up and now he’s avoiding me suddenly I found out I’m 5 weeks and I have no idea what to do I don’t know how to tell him cause he’s avoiding me and I rather not do it in text and also I’m not sure if I should tell him at all cause I’m terrified of doing this alone again since he seems to want nothing to do with me and I don’t know what I want to do 🤦‍♀️

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If you want an abortion, you don’t have to tell him. Your body. But if you’re going to keep it you should tell him. He should know if he’s going to have a child in the world even if he wants nothing to do with it.

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I mean yeah, I know it's scary but what if it turns out different then what your afraid of and he steps up. That would be awesome. There is nothing to lose if you don't tell him then you do it alone and If you do there is a chance it will work out!

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You tell him

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I agree with Barbara, I would wait until after you have your initial OB appointment, or even until the second trimester, and then yes you should tell him.

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Yes. It’s messed up not to tell him. He deserves to know and to have the opportunity to have a relationship with them.

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Tell him, he either fucks off or he could step up and co parent. You never know.

Do I have to tell him ?

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