Suggestion needed

Please don't take this post the wrong way. I am praying for everyone to get their BFP soon! First off, I am grateful to have a wonderful 3 year old son. He is so smart and the best thing in my life. We have been TTC for exactly one year for number 2. We took a break in November, because I needed it. AF just started today. ☹ I hesitate to even ask this, but just looking for some opinions or people that are in the same scenario. Would you skip a month so you don't have another child in November or just keep trying? I don't want to skip because it is taking us so long but my bday is 11/16 and my son is 11/19. Thank you for reading! Baby dust to you all!