I left my abusive ex of 3 years, about a year ago it was the worst relationship ever, I couldn’t even talk to his BFF because he was so insecure. He’d call me names, push me when he was mad & drag me. Plus more. I blocked him and he’d leave me msgs for about 6 months. Never looked back. I hate him.

Now when I met him he had 3 best friends and one of them omg ladies so so so handsome. Ladies throw themselves at him when we’d all go out, not even exaggerating. We got along so well and had so much in common but I ended up talking to his friend. I didn’t want anything with him because he’s so handsome and he just likes to “have fun”.

Fast forward to now, I went to a concert and we bumped into each other, there was always that sexual tension there. We ended up leaving together and hooking up.. after that we’ve hooked up another 3 more times. I don’t know what’s going on, we don’t talk about anything more but oh man. I don’t know what I’ve got myself into.. we both agreed to just keep it between us two since we’re just enjoying our time.

I guess should I be feeling guilty? Am I horrible for doing this to my ex??

I’m 25 he’s 27 this was never a “revenge” thing, it happened and we’ve been enjoying it..

Edit- for the person saying my ex wasn’t wrong for not “allowing” for me and his BFF to talk because of his insecurities

Yes, you are wrong. We never crossed the line. Especially since I met them at the same time we became friends, those were never my intentions. So yes, completely wrong. He’s psycho and if I “clicked” with someone of the opposite sex that was a problem. These weren’t my intentions, we bumped into each other and it happened. I never reached out to his BFF