So im due in May and my fiancé's mom is already talking about how we're gonna have to bring the baby to her house to see him bc she "cant" come over and see my son. I live with my grandma, but obviously she doesn't care if anyone comes to visit. My MIL os literally talking about keeping my son all the time, creating an entire nursery at her house, and not letting me put my child in daycare. Anyone else have a family member like this? I'm afraid she's gonna have a rude awakening soon, bc with the job me and my fiance have, i wont even need daycare bc he works nights and i work days. I dont think i should have to drive 30 mins out of my way when we're trying not to waste gas/money, when she can seriously just come see him? Am I crazy for feeling like she's just trying to control how I plan on going about things for my son? She has even told my fiance how breastfed babies starve and I should just accept the fact that formula is better for baby🙃 Im terrified of his family trying to be controlling after i give birth, bc they've all tried to tell me what to do and what not to when I'm pregnant, like certain genetic testing and things that are my and my fiances choice(s). She refuses to have a baby shower planned with my family bc she isnt comfortable around them btw (she met them once at the gender reveal and stayed away from everyone then left without saying anything). I have anxiety. I hate parties. And i only wanted one shower but now i have to plan 2 bc she feels entitled