Check yourself by the Word of God

And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

Romans 1:28‭-‬32 KJV

Me and my friends do bible study together each week every other day. This week we begin to study the book of Roman's. And as we got to then end of that chapter we begin to see ourselves in the things counted as not convenient. And we said almost in unison " Lord help us". These are the things that people who are consider to have reprobated mindset work in. Reprobate simply means to have rejected minds( thoughts, intentions, meditations; rejected by God). So I encourage you ladies to read these things and see if you see your self in this list. If so, repent and ask God to help you gain victory over which ever it is. If you dont have a weak area in any of these then please pray for us who do. And always study the word of God to measure your own self. I'm learning this more and more daily, that I learn more about me the more I search for me in the word of God.