I swear this man is something else. My aunt just passed away (dads sister). So I told my husband that I was going to go see her at the hospital and wait for my dad to arrive. My dad lives in san antonio so it was going to take him 4-5 hours to get to the hospital.

My husband threw a fit saying that why did I need to go and that if we weren't going to go to dinner. I said I wanted to be there before they took her to the morgue tomorrow and I cooked for him real fast and left. So I get to the hospital and I'm there for about 2 hours and the staff came in and said it was time to go. All of our family is here at this point. We leave and we all go to my uncle's house(aunts husband) and we let my dad know that they took her already and to meet us there. My dad gets there and we all just break down and stay for a couple of hours just reminiscing.

So I call my husband and let him know I was going home. I get home and I start telling him about what happened and what we were doing. I tell him my dad wants to go early to the hospital cause they are going to let us see her 1 more time but in a different level. I let him know that I will be leaving tomorrow morning early to be with my dad through all this. My dad is 65 years old and has health problems of his one. Let alone this is his baby sister. My husband without my knowledge told his uncle that I will accompany him tomorrow to this appointment to have his appendix drainage tube removed. I told him I was sorry but I cant go with him and I will be with my father instead. He gets mad and says that why do I have to be there. That if I'm not there are they not going to do anything. saying that he is going to miss a whole day of work just to take his uncle who can perfectly drive to the clinic. I dont know if I'm being a bitch but he is comparing my deceased aunt to his 50 year old uncle who just needs a drainage tube removed

Any advice?