So I've been "talking" to this guy since about October. Though we did start things off sexually, as time went by, he'd do and say things that u don't just do for anybody. For example, he bought shoes after the first month of talking and he's given me money for starbucks. He would say things like my kitty is his, make slick comments insinuating that he doesn't want me to be with other guys/ say that he doesn't want me to go anywhere, he always says how he misses me, when I'm upset with him and stop responding to his text, he messages me again to see what's up (which is new for me since guys I've dealt with let me be and we wouldn't talk until I said something or days have passed), he works a lot and recently made a comment saying how he's working for him and i and how his money is mine too, and whenever we get into a disagreement or i feel some type of way and i tell him, he makes sure that we come to understanding and instead of getting defensive and coming at me, he says how he'll do better. There's just a lot of things that would indicate that there could be more but I'm not 100% sure.

I'm not looking for comments saying that I should sit him down to see where we are b/w us. I'm just anxious about Valentine's Day. I've always been single so I'm used to not doing anything on V-day but I'm curious if he planned anything or is planning to at least see me. I don't care about getting a gift or rose pedals on the bed but I just wonder what tomorrow has in store for me. I don't expect anything nor do i have any high expectations because I don't want to be let down. I don't want to straight up ask him and put him in a weird position or force anything at that. So far he hasn't mentioned anything about it but I do have self-care/love plans for myself tomorrow. I don't want to be that female where the guy ignores the girl during the v-day weekend to avoid going out.

If u ladies were (or are) in my shoes, how would u feel or react if the guy ur "talking" to, didn't do anything and just treated everything like a normal day??

Disclaimer: I don't care about v-day or the gifts! I'm just curious if things would be different this time since I have a mutual interest in someone.

Also, I haven't brought it up cuz he hasn't lol. Yeah, I'm chicken.