he went soft:(

so i was doing stuff w the boy i’ve been talking to. i care about him a lot and he treats me the best anyone has in a long while. basically i was ᴜʜʜʜ blowing him and he went like. SOFT. and i have never felt that before and i didn’t rly know what was going on. he just apologized and said that it’s only happened once before but his dick just like. goes numb and then soft. i just assured him i didn’t mind and that he doesn’t have to worry. but i worry it was something i did :( he said he needs to work on his anxiety and self confidence because his shirt was off and i didn’t realize he had been struggling with anything like that. it probably wasn’t me but is there anything i can do to prevent it? not for my own benefit but just to make sure he doesn’t feel bad bc i don’t want him to be embarrassed or anything :/